1. Samuel Ojekwe avatar

    On Sun, Sep 25, 2016 at 7:59 AM, Samuel Ojekwe said:

    On Sun, Sep 25, 2016 at 7:52 AM, Samuel Ojekwe said:
    @ Onika : AND FURTHERMORE, YOU AND YOU ALL SHOULD PLEASE REMEMBER THAT THERE IS NO HARD AND FAST RULE ONCE WE EACH OR SOME OR ALL GET HERE TO THE EARTH THAT INSISTS THAT WE MUST KEEP TO ANY COVENANTS OR AGREEMENTS OR UNDERSTANDINGS REACHED OR MADE ANYWHERE ELSE

    which implies that we don't even have to want to make it work / come true once we get here to the earth.

    which implies that it doesn't have to happen when we get here to the earth.

    that reality in itself imbeds FREEDOM into each and every one of our lives ... regarding any such understandings

    that reality in itself imbeds FREEDOM TO DO SOMETHING ELSE TOTALLY DIFFERENT into each and every one of our lives ... regarding any such understandings

    that reality in itself imbeds FREEDOM TO DO WHATEVER ELSE DIFFERENT WE WANT TO DO into each and every one of our lives ... regarding any such understandings

    and it is means there's no need putting any one ( including our each individual selves ) to stress over stress that may never work anyway especially when life here on earth itself gives the human being a myriad of options to follow based on the circumstances he/she finds herself/himself located/structured into when she/he gets her.





    ***************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************On Sun, Sep 25, 2016 at 6:25 AM, Samuel Ojekwe said:
    @ Onika :
    QUITE FRANKLY, THERE IS NO REASON FOR YOU TO DO ALL THAT WORRYING THAT
    YOU HAVE BEEN DOING ---- AND ARE ---- DOING ABOUT :
    [1] YOU MARRYING ME
    [2] YOU ALL MARRYING ME

    yeah.

    again. repeat : QUITE FRANKLY, THERE IS NO REASON FOR YOU TO DO ALL THAT WORRYING THAT YOU HAVE BEEN DOING ---- AND ARE ---- DOING ABOUT :
    [1] YOU MARRYING ME

    yeah.
    because FIRST OF ALL
    if it is ever going to happen in this world .. on this earth .. in this lifetime ..
    YOU and ME have to be IN THE SAME PLACE / LOCATION for the WEDDING ....
    ( ---- it's going to have to be by NATIVE LAW & CUSTOM / CUSTOMARY LAW if you all are going to marry me, isn't it ? ---- )
    .... to take place
    even if during the MARRIAGE itself you are going to be going all around all over the world doing your tours and shows and events and whatever.
    ---- and that means you should start thinking seriously of positive ways forwards / a positive way forwards regarding the possibility of me not following you all about every where narh-eekay-narh-eekay during the actual marriage itself.

    and again. repeat : QUITE FRANKLY, THERE IS NO REASON FOR YOU TO DO ALL THAT WORRYING THAT YOU HAVE BEEN DOING ---- AND ARE ---- DOING ABOUT :
    [2] YOU ALL MARRYING ME

    yeah.
    again because FIRST OF ALL
    if it is ever going to happen in this world .. on this earth .. in this lifetime ..
    YOU ALL and ME have to be IN THE SAME PLACE / LOCATION for the WEDDING[S] ....
    ( ---- it's going to have to be by NATIVE LAW & CUSTOM / CUSTOMARY LAW if you all are going to marry me, isn't it ? ---- )
    .... to take place
    even if during the MARRIAGE itself you all are going to be going all around all over the world doing your tours and shows and events and whatever.
    ---- and that means you all should start thinking seriously of positive ways forwards / a positive way forwards regarding the possibility of me not following you all individually all about every where narh-eekay-narh-eekay during the actual marriage itself.
    because there's the logistics issue of it and also the selection issue of who i will follow to whose event and who i will not follow to whose event .... and that is whether the events clash in timing or not.


    SECONDLY
    as things stand right now SEP 2016
    .... and have been standing for awhile ....
    it is you : ONIKA who HAS ALL THE MONEY while me : SAM i have no dime / no cent / no kobo / no penny / no pence
    so from that angle i.e the ECONOMIC ANGLE / the FINANCIAL ANGLE which is a MOST CRITICAL COMPONENT of any relationship, it is you who will be marrying me and all i will be doing will be providing the male complement in a man-and-woman type Onitsha Customary Law / Native Law & Custom wedding / marriage.

    and again SECONDLY
    as things stand right now SEP 2016
    .... and have been standing for awhile ....
    it is you ALL who HAVE ALL THE MONEY while me : SAM i have no dime / no cent / no kobo / no penny / no pence
    so from that angle i.e the ECONOMIC ANGLE / the FINANCIAL ANGLE which is a MOST CRITICAL COMPONENT of any relationship, it is you ALL who will be marrying me and all i will be doing will be providing the male complement in a man-and-woman type Onitsha Customary Law / Native Law & Custom wedding / marriage.


    all those OTHER ISSUES YOU HAVE ALSO BEEN WORRYING ( UN-NECCESSARILY ? ) ABOUT
    e.g
    CULTURE DIFFERENCES
    ORIENTATION DIFFERENCES
    YOUR LIFE STYLE,
    ETC, ETC, ETC
    are really irrelevant
    because if we are going to make it work we will do what we need to do to make it work and be a success
    and if we are not going to male it work we will be doing things that will make it not work and make it a failure

    and again all those OTHER ISSUES YOU ALL HAVE ALSO BEEN WORRYING ( UN-NECCESSARILY ? ) ABOUT
    e.g
    CULTURE DIFFERENCES
    ORIENTATION DIFFERENCES
    YOUR LIFE STYLES,
    ETC, ETC, ETC
    are really irrelevant
    because if we are going to make it work we will do what we need to do to make it work and be a success
    and if we are not going to male it work we will be doing things that will make it not work and make it a failure

    and that's really the basic fundamental truth of it
    any and all issues can be addressed as we go along forwards
    we can make efforts to address any and all issues as we go along forwards
    but if really within us we don't want to make it work, then we will destroy it and make it fail. simple.

    so, i don't know why
    YOU HAVE BEEN WORRYING ABOUT THINGS THAT ARE NOT YET REALLY RELEVANT
    YOU ALL HAVE BEEN WORRYING ABOUT THINGS THAT ARE NOT YET REALLY RELEVANT
    we should start by GETTING THE BASIC THINGS RIGHT FIRST
    we should start by PUTTING THE BASIC THINGS IN PLACE FIRST
    and i guess a FUNDAMENTAL ISSUE to address is WHERE WE ARE i.e LOCATION[S]
    it's already 2016
    you are still in CALIFORNIA?, U.S.A
    i am still in MAKOKO, YORUBA-LAND, NIGERIA
    SERENA is where? MIAMI ?
    RIHANNA is where? in the U.S.A? or in BARBADOS ?
    and where are/is EVERY ONE ELSE ?
    so how is that wedding ever going to take place .... if it ever takes place at all .... with every one scattered all around all over the globe / earth / world.

    my current FINANCIAL LIMITATIONS / CONSTRAINTS make it impossible
    ---- and have long made it impossible ----
    ---- and have made it impossible all along ----
    for me to be in the same location(s) as you and you all GIVEN THE REALITIES OF OUR INDIVIDUAL EXISTENCES WHICH WE MET WHEN WE GOT HERE TO EARTH

    i have often wondered why you and you all INSISTED IN PUTTING IN SO MANY ENCUMBRANCES INTO WHAT SHOULD ORDINARILY HAVE BEEN A STRAIGHT-FORWARD SIMPLE PROCESS.
    and now look where we still are as at 2016

    anyway, like i said THE BASIC THINGS HAVE TO BE PUT IN PLACE AND SORTED OUT FIRST
    AND THEN EVERYTHING ELSE CAN BE BUILT ON THAT BASIC TEMPLATE.

    if that basic template is not put in place
    if that basic template is never put in place
    i am not sure any other thing can be put in place

    Onika, you tell me where this thinking is not correct so we can address it and correct it.
    yeah.
    you all tell me where this thinking is not correct so we can address it and correct it.
    yeah.

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