Blogs

Fri, Apr 15, 2011 at 9:47 PM

"GREEN" Is NOT Your Color!

Jealously, hatefulness & envy are the main ingredients for disaster. It annoys me to see people getting upset & jealous of the blessings of someone else. WHY?! Why have hate for someone because things are going well for them? Or because they got to go to an event that u wanted to be at? If u know u have/had the finances to be at the event, then GO. You have absolutely NO reason to complain. But, If u don't have the finances & u kno that there is NO way that u can make it to that event, why in the hell would u get mad at someone who did/does have the finances for it?! I mean, if u had them u would go right? Okay. So there is no need to be mad at a person who has/had the means to go. The jealously, the envy, the hatefulness, the selfishness & all that negativity really needs to stop because in the end, u're really only hurting urself. A wise woman once said, "Why are u spending so much energy, so much of your fuel.. on... things that don't reward u when u get there?" Be mindful of how u use ur fuel because u might be lending too much energy to someone or something else that isn't beneficial to u instead of using it on things that reward YOU. U could be blocking your own blessings.

  1. Munna avatar

    On Sun, Jul 10, 2011 at 8:37 PM, Munna said:

    Ok True. That,s All. Im Really Gonna Say For Now

  2. MzBellaBarbie avatar

    On Fri, Apr 15, 2011 at 11:02 PM, MzBellaBarbie said:

    True. Very true.

  3. sofargone avatar

    On Fri, Apr 15, 2011 at 10:58 PM, sofargone said:

    Oh trust me, I only follow people I like, but sometimes the people I like RT others.

  4. MzBellaBarbie avatar

    On Fri, Apr 15, 2011 at 10:41 PM, MzBellaBarbie said:

    Hi NegritaLinda, thanks for checking out and commenting on my blog. :) While all your points are true and quite valid, my point still remains. If you (i use the word "you" loosely) have the means to see Nicki 50-11 times and you choose NOT to go, there is NO reason to be mad at a person who did go & got to see/meet meet her. & a lot of TM is quite supportive BUT there are some that tend to have anger (or whatever u wanna call it) at those who get to, or have had the opportunity to meet/see Nicki multiple times. Whether or not that person is humble about their meetings with her is besides the point because karma does exist. And when I speak about "blessings", i'm not just talking about meeting Nicki, i'm talking all good things in general. When you're harboring negativity how can you possibly see the GOOD that is right in front of you? Like you said ppl are blessed to be able to wake up in the morning BUT they don't even realize that bc they're too busy being mad, jealous or whatever at someone else.

    *** And another thing to keep in mind is that YOU determine who you follow. If you feel like someone on your tl is bragging or acting superior, you can either tolerate it OR get rid of it but clicking that Unfollow button. :) & s/o to my twin @TeamMinajPINK! Love her! :)

  5. sofargone avatar

    On Fri, Apr 15, 2011 at 10:20 PM, sofargone said:

    Hello! I found your blog post from a RT on my Twitter. I'm glad you brought this issue up, actually. You (and probably most of Team Minaj) don't know who I am, but I'm a quiet, observant, unofficial member of Team Minaj. This "jealousy" issue comes up quite frequently and I must say, I think there are very few people in Team Minaj that are truly jealous of others. There are a few people who brag constantly and when called on it, will flip it and make it seem like people are picking on them for no reason. That's simply not true. I follow TeamMinajPink (I reached your blog from her RT, actually) and she has met and seen Nicki many times but manages to stay humble, nice and helpful to Team Minaj. I can't say the same about others.

    Being "blessed" has little to do with meeting Nicki 50-11 times or following her to different cities, because some people have the resources to do that but choose not to for various reasons. Everyone is blessed to simply have the opportunity to wake each day (hate to sound cliche but it's true!). There are some people who need to feel superior to others, however, and they say and do things to fuel the illusory "jealous" they talk about...which is nothing more than annoyance at their incessant bragging.

    I'm on Twitter @negrita_linda, for anyone wonder. :)

Post a comment

MzBellaBarbie’s Blogs

Newsletter Signup