Wed, Mar 9, 2011 at 4:03 PM


After having an eye opening dream last night, I decided to blog. This has absolutely nothing to do with Nicki but I want to share my thoughts with those Nicki have given me the opportunity to cross paths with. This is something I've never really took the time to think of in such a deep depth but at one point, it is something that we should all free our minds too. Every person God has put in your life is only there temporarily and that's also applies to you. Every single day that we wake up and inhale, we are blessed. We are never promised another day and that also applies to the people in our lives. We suppress the thoughts of our loved ones living their last moments but how can we, why should we when we don't know? Why do we sometimes treat our loved ones bad when that could be the last treatment we give them? When people pass away, they don't wake up in the morning brushing their hair or their teeth, dressing themselves, playing their music and dancing, etc... knowing that, that specific day is their last. They just go! Freak accidents happen ever second of the day. No one tells a person who passes in a car accident that they'll be hit by a drunk driver or that there's something on the road that'll cause them to lose control and end it all. Just as they don't know, unfortunately, we'll never know either. We can never put a time on when we'll lose somebody dear to us. My purpose in writing this blog is to not only let everyone reading it know that I sincerely love them but to hopefully open your eyes to a simple yet very true fact that tomorrow is not promised!! Hug everyone you can in your family, express your gratitude in love for them, when you're pissed off at the world, don't push the people who love you away, watch your ways and words with people because whether you've lived your life believing that words don't hurt or not, they can! Whether words hurt an individual or not is based on the person themselves. Be careful as for how you treat others! The bad things you do can have a negative impact on someone who could be destined to leave the earth seconds, minutes, or hours away. Life is short! Appreciate those in your life and LOVE them! UNCONDITIONALLY! Not for what they can do for you but because they're there and at any given moment, they can be gone! I want you, Team Minaj, to know that you as a whole have impacted me. I tell you all the time that you guys are my family and I mean it. Some have hurt me, some have made me very happy! For what you've done at any rate, I have grown from it and you are a part of who I've become as each day, we learn and we grow! If I could give each of you a big hug & a kiss on the cheek, I would :) Muuuuuaaaaah! I love you! -Nelly

  1. CashleyNika avatar

    On Sat, Mar 12, 2011 at 5:35 AM, CashleyNika said:

    xoxoxoxo thank you Nelly. I love you.

  2. NickisLatinBarb avatar

    On Wed, Mar 9, 2011 at 10:45 PM, NickisLatinBarb said:

    i freaking love what you said in this! nothing but the truth!

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    On Wed, Mar 9, 2011 at 6:54 PM, ManxBarbie said:

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    On Wed, Mar 9, 2011 at 6:27 PM, Esther_minajfan said:

    I don't know wat2 say.. That was really inspirational.. xoxo

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    On Wed, Mar 9, 2011 at 5:33 PM, Paki said:

    Your blog has touched me; I swear you spoke my heart out. I thank you a lot for sharing because opening up to someone is something I'm not good at, but you give me the urge to let it all out. Xoxo! -Paki!

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    On Wed, Mar 9, 2011 at 5:06 PM, NinjaNik14 said:

    This Right Here, is REAAAAAAAAAL TALK.
    I Dont even know what to say, but i can defo relate to it with your sincere writing its all TRUE.
    short and simple. love you back Nelly :) & Team Minaj.
    London Love Mwahh xx

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    On Wed, Mar 9, 2011 at 4:50 PM, MinajTriniRican said:

    Wow Nelly this is very deep, but every single thing u said is very true, we def take for granted the people that show us everlasting love & its never right, but as we grow older its important for us to understand that yes tomorrow is not promised so don't act as if we give life to ourselves. I also think its important to spend time w those we love & show appreciation in every way possible. We as individuals have bad days but we should try to make the best of it, bc how sad would it be to leave this world angry & sadden… be happy, rejoice that ur alive & theres people that love us...Love yall!

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    On Wed, Mar 9, 2011 at 4:47 PM, TeamMinaj*SouthAfrica said:

    Awwhhh this!!!

    It touched my heart so much. *punches you playfully* you always make me cry with your blogs Nellz!! They always sooo relevant to my life :) I love you Nelly & though we have yet to meet, you have a treasured place in my heart! Thank youuu for the eye opener! Beautiful Post

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    On Wed, Mar 9, 2011 at 4:26 PM, IrishBarbiee said:

    Ur words are so true!!! U think the same as me babe! And even though I'm one of th few who don't believe in a god I still have all the same morals as u. Treat people how u wanna be treated & even though sometimes u mightnt get the same respect back all the time u should never change ur ways. Team Minaj is another family for me too, and I love every single person in it who I know are here for Nicki Minaj & Team Minaj.. Tmoro is never promised so live each day like its ur last.. Don't hold grudges..& forgive & forget! Some people it may be too hard to forgive & forget, but wish the best for them & go different ways. Too much evil in this world. We were all brought together for a reason. Even though we all fight with someone we love at times, the love is always gonna be there. So remember that - and forget about the reason u were even fighting because at th end of th day if they weren't there anymore it would be awful. Love u Nelly for writing this!!! Muuuah!!!! Xoxoxox

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    On Wed, Mar 9, 2011 at 4:11 PM, CherryIsis said:

    This seriously made me tear up! I try to make sure no matter what I say to someone (good/bad) that I end it with "I Love U". We surely don't know when we'll go and I want the last thing sum1 to remember from me is that they were Loved. This really needed to be said.

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