Wed, Jan 5, 2011 at 5:53 PM

I no longer need your attention, AT EASE

By: Ms. AMz

This is just a post to keep telling everyone to do you. It's your life, therefore your rules. You shouldn't feel guilty for not living upto someone else's expectations. I know what it's like to completely forget about yourself, running around after people who were never worth my time or effort. The amount of energy I used on people who eventually fell away, who in the end, I realised, were not who I thought they were. - See I used to put people up on pedestals, so I always had this sense of wonder to look up to people. It was never a good thing, because I never did that with myself. I always compared myself to others in ways you couldn't comprehend, even I couldn't at times. I couldn't stop myself until I saw my world getting smaller, crashing down on me, suffocating me. Only then did I start to wake up amongst the rubble and start putting my life back together. You know how I did that? I listened to myself, I stopped trying to please everyone and started to take care of me. Because at the end of the day if you don't start loving yourself how can you expect someone else to?

  1. ClassyP!nkBarb avatar

    On Thu, Jan 6, 2011 at 2:05 AM, ClassyP!nkBarb said:

    I love "Here I Am"! Very deep and empowering song. Wish it was a sing too!!

  2. Ms. AMz avatar

    On Wed, Jan 5, 2011 at 6:57 PM, Ms. AMz said:

    I really like your response to my post, especially the second part x

  3. Harajuku_Barbie80 avatar

    On Wed, Jan 5, 2011 at 6:15 PM, Harajuku_Barbie80 said:

    We are each of us born into this life with a particular purpose, or mission, a gift to give the world. We will find that whatever is our passion is generally that which is related to our purpose and for which we have a particular gift to develop and share.

    We all have dreams and wishes. Unless we do something about them, that is exactly what they remain. It is action that brings our dreams and wishes to life. We can do this by setting goals and taking it step by step until our goals are realized. Never be daunted by those who would discourage you. Listen to and act on your inner voice, let your life be an adventure! Mistakes and all. After all, it is your life!

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    On Wed, Jan 5, 2011 at 6:13 PM, Harajuku_Barbie80 said:


  5. TRast avatar

    On Wed, Jan 5, 2011 at 6:12 PM, TRast said:

    I feel im going thru the same thing!!! i gotta do me this year 2011 !!!

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